Questions...

I was watching HITMAN and heard this interesting dialog by Hitman
> "How does a good man decide when to kill?"

This leaves lot of other such questions in my mind...

Death and Heartbreaks

I always end up writing about Life and relationships... Cos I feel everything else is in our hands...

We can work hard to get a good job, and get lot of fame, respect, money...
If we want we can be good/better human beings and do good for others...
Basically it is in our hands to make a difference...

However, we cant do much when it comes to being in love with someone, and that person not loving you back the same way...
or Life as such; even if you are driving slow, one can be hit by some other vehicle...
So one cant fight Death (when its time) and Heartbreaks (when there is no way out)... One just need to face it with a smile!!

Mixed thoughts

Me and Ants again:
Was driving down to my sis's office to drop her... While being in the traffic, I've been thinking about the Ants... So when I looked around, suddenly I said - "We humans are so.. Unorganized Ants".
Sis insisted that I must add this in my Blog... so doing the same :) ... I have nothing else to write about it... Its just a thought... but I guess it does make some sense...




 




Love/Life and passion for the same:
I was talking to a friend long long ago and he asked me something, which I dont remmeber... But I remember that I said  "I love the feeling of being in love". And he said... that means you are probably not in love with a particular person... you probably just love the feeling of being in love... I'm still trying to analyze myself on that... ;)








 

Life:

I can see that even with those Big/small Ups-n-Downs in life, I still have the Enthusiasm, that Excitement to Live and to be in Love and keep Family and Friends Happy... to do a little more in life, to see more places, to be a better person, to learn a bit more about my work and about the things that interests me... and bit more everyday...and days to come...

Learning from an Ant...

Guess what!!

Have you watched over an ant..climbing up...and soon as she is about to touch the destination, she fall back to the ground? Sure you know what I am talking about - its a very common site.

So you have also noticed that she wont give up, she - our dear ant - starts all over again! She doesn't even stop for a minute/second to think on "hey I've start all over again now", "oh no! I failed..." or whatever... she just don't stop and starts to climb immediately!!

Amazing na??

Kinda same happened with me - I failed - I fell flat on my face... but unlike ants, I was upset, sad, disappointed..etc...for months!

But guess what... now I've started to walk towards my destination all over again :) Right from the scratch... and this time I know that I just need to keep doing this - "keep walking towards my destination"...

I was handicap/slave to my own sadness, disappointments...Its a great feeling to break free... I don't feel handicap/slave anymore.!!

Cheers!! Have a great living ahead :)

Thinking loud... and clear!!

Guess what... Education/God has made no difference in most of our life and way we think!

No offense to anyone's preferences... but listen to this - an average educated person in India prays to God/bhagawan ji ... but learns nothing from God nor did education made any difference in their life (except for they can talk, give gyan and earn money) - but they will never understand what God really wants or what holy books really teaches... and will always be stuck up with religion, Cast/Sub cast, India-Pakistan, Hindu-Muslim, boundaries... the list is long... They just dont think on basic human levels!!

I know a lot of educated people who can talk and give great gyan but when it comes to being a good human being - God! they are so lame...

I have been hit by this a few times in my life! And I feel really sorry for such people... I really do, cos they just make their and other's life miserable! They just dont know how to live - One Life dam-it - Live, breath and let live... why you want to rule on others lifes??? (you can see my anger here.. but i just cant help it!)
I wish I could just give a big tight hug to these people, and ask them to relax, to not to complicate life so much... just give them lot of love so that they change...

Thank God that I got a family with mix culture/religion, sound education, which gave me the mind to think on human levels than on religion or north-south or on society levels!

Life again...

Sometimes Life's Just not fair..but I believe the tougher it is, better it get..I'm having great time "Living", so what if has rough edges!

Live as if there is no tomorrow...

I was watching 'I Shouldn't Be Alive' on Discovery Channel...

The story was - Shark Survivor – 1982. Five people get caught in a tropical storm and their yacht sinks. They have to survive in the middle of the ocean on a raft with absolutely no survival equipment for 5-6 days. To their horror they find the area of the ocean to be infested with sharks!! Two of them had hallucinations and jumped in the sea ...and was eaten by sharks. One was injured...and eventually died on the 4th day.

Only two out of five survived till the end- and the one of them said something like "..You are never more thankful for life than the day you almost died!!!"

Does age matter??

I'm sure if I was seeing a guy younger to me, alot of people would have probably talked about it! I wonder how does age matter. If you like someone, you get along well...etc... Then why is the age made such a big issue!!?

wondering as usual

Life... just one life!

Sometimes things around seems to be so meaningless...

Why everyone is not passionate about life...

What if we had just one day to live...

Clueless

Sometimes things are over long back... but we realise it very late!

When do you say this...?

Relationships

1. Do you need to play 'act-pricy’ games to get some attention? Or relationships are simple?

• I think we don’t really need to. But sometimes it’s needed; when you feel you are taken for granted.
• But I am not sure...

2. What is that make a relationship strong?

• Trust
• Understanding
• What else…?

3. I have seen breakups. And I know people give n reasons for why they are breaking up. I am just wondering, how can a person suddenly stop loving someone? What is that one real thing that lead to all these breakups?

"Been busy..."

"Been busy..." this is all I have to say when I am unable to meet close friends...or when I fail to take family out on weekends...and so on.

It’s been more than 2 years since I have been working...and I have no time for personal life. In 24 hrs all I am able to do is the 8 hrs office work. Even though I do a good job in managing professional life but I fail to do a good time management in my personal life.

There is so much I want to do besides working; learn some foreign language, join gym, study some books related to my profession, visit places and a lot more.

Life revolves around office... I am sure everyone will agree that there is so much more besides earning money.

Around 4-5 years back I heard Robin Williams, in one of his movies, saying some like- "...noble Professions like engineering, medicine etc are needed to sustain life BUT love, beauty, passion are the essence of life…";
I sooo agree with this!