Monday, February 06, 2006


Relationships

1. Do you need to play 'act-pricy’ games to get some attention? Or relationships are simple?
  • I think we don’t really need to. But sometimes it’s needed; when you feel you are taken for granted.
  • But I am not sure...
2. What is that make a relationship strong?
  • Trust
  • Understanding
  • What else…?
3. I have seen breakups. And I know people give n reasons for why they are breaking up. I am just wondering, how can a person suddenly stop loving someone? What is that one real thing that lead to all these breakups?

12 comments:

Claude Richard said...

That's the question !
Interesting topics.

Ethan said...

i guess love cannot coexist with lack of respect, the respect goes first and love follows on the way out...

Anonymous said...

The only reason I feel is EGO

AlterinG Abhishek said...

I beleive relationships are very complex!
There can be priority conflits at times. I dont know if you get me here.
and another thing is that love( well.. whatever that is..:-)) )is blind.. at least temporarily blind!
..
your question is pretty ineteresting!!
and u have a beautyful blog, seems you take aout special time to make it look pretty good..
quite a perfectionist you seem to be by nature!!??

Clueless said...

>crescendo: :) well yes thats the question! wish I can find good answer to it.

>ethan: hummm... yes, could be... (me pondering on that)

>deepak: I am not quite sure if ego could be one reason for breakup... hummm... let me think...

>abhishek: I wonder if relationships are complex or we make it complex?!
But, yes I agree with you on 'Love is Blind' (temporarily).
:) Thanks appreciating my blog...I dont really do anything to make it look pretty.

Anonymous said...

if some one stops loving someone that means there was no love at all... but according to me the main thing behind what we or every one call love is trust, and comfort.

if u r comrortable with someone then only u wud like spending time with that person. and after some time u find that u r habituated to that person... then u start trusting that person on every thing.. thats what love is... "i believe".. but when this relation starts making u uncomfortable then find n number of way to get out of it... but at that time also, love never dies... i can write the whole day on this topic but thats it for now... i hope u'll some thing out of it...

Anonymous said...

You learn to like someone when you find out what makes them laugh, but you can never truly love someone until you find out what makes them cry.” "If we don't feel love with our heart, then how come that's where it hurts when someone doesn't love you back." "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.

jugni said...
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Anonymous said...

A Relationship.

Well, it's a riddle, wrapped in mystery, inside an enigma!

:D

Anonymous said...

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY !!!
ENJOY UR LUV LIFE!

Aditi said...

I think relationships end for a myriad of reasons, mostly sometimes love just isnt enough to keep it going. Lack of trust, lack of love, just drifting apart and sometimes just not trying hard enough. Who knows the truth is they do end.

Clueless said...

"...sometimes just not trying hard enough.." makes sense...