like the first kiss...

Forgive!

...came across this - Forgiveness

...real love keeps no record of wrongs... more...
...a real friend will forgive...more...

Karma

I've been wanting to write about 'Karma' and fundas like that but I'm a lil busy with my project deadlines.. I'll update my blog as soon as I get free...

I dont think I will get enough time to write all whats in my mind... so here are some points:

...jaisi karni waisi bharni..what u sow so shall you reap...
...whatever happens, happens for a reaso...
...for every event that occurs, there will follow another event whose existence was caused by the first, and this second event will be pleasant or unpleasant according as its cause was skillful or unskillful...

(coming up shortly...)

Feelings

Feelings (Adapted from: Jo Pye )

My feelings for you I can not hide,
I talk to you all night...being with you just feels so right!

You make me feel like I'm a queen,
Like being inside an awesome dream...

When you not around I get upset…
and fight with you, and remain unrest

You pamper me and say this is real, I believe you, hope u know…
And the love that surrounds us continues to grow

I think of what the future holds...Marriage, children, us growing old

And as I lay, thinking of you, my dear,
I'm just so glad that you're mine, you're real...

Do you know someone like that??

...he knows what he wants...
...he is clear in his words and thoughts...
...he is practical and yet dreamy...
...he is romantic and a lot more...
...he is crazy, he is sweet... he is a baby!

Confuse state of mind

I find it very difficult to identify certain things…

…how I feel for people I am in touch with…
…who are those people who matter to me…
…what is real and what is not…

…where do I stand…?
…how to describe myself… what would be the real 'Me’…
…how I see myself is real or the way people see me as…
…what is real and what is not…

…I know what I really want in life, what I want to do etc…
…but then, a lot of things/people I have in life that don’t really fit in that picture… what should I do about those things/people…
…How to sum up my childhood (and my past)… there were good time and bad times… what would be that one word that will say it all…?
…what would be that ‘ideal scale’ from which I can compare my life to identify the facts…?
…what is real and what is not…

What Flower Are You?

I am a Lily

You are a nurturer and all around natural therapist. People see you as their rock. And they are able to depend on you. You are a soothing influence. You can make people feel better with a few words. Your caring has more of an impact than even you realize.

What Flower Are You?

What Kind of Flirt Are You?

I am a Natural Flirt!

Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt. And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting. Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt. And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!

What Kind of Flirt Are You?

A Good Woman

A friend send me this... Do you have some points to add to this list?

How To Recognise A Good Woman

• A good woman is proud. She respects herself and others.
• She is aware of who she is.
• She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind.
• She is quite capable of articulating her needs.
• A good woman is hopeful.
• She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true.
• She knows love, therefore she gives love.
• She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated.
• If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears.
• A good woman has a dash of inspiration and a dabble of endurance.
• She knows that she will at times have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them.
• A good woman knows her past, understands her present and forces toward the future.
• A good woman knows God.
• She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played with.
• A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and unconditional self-love…

Roy's List:

Qualities Men Look for in a Woman!
1. Attractive, neat and clean appearance.
2. Great personality, friendly and outgoing.
3. Happy with her career or job
4. Healthy. Not too thin or too heavy!
5. Intelligent
6. Affectionate and attentive
7. Even tempered.
8. Likes sports or will be O.K. with you liking sports.
9.Good sense of humor

Ten Qualities Men Do Not Like In Women:
1. Bad breath or body odor
2. Cold and unaffectionate disposition.
3. Messy appearance or greatly overweight (50 pounds or more) or underweight (10 lbs or more)
4. Too much make-up.
5. Foul language, loud and abrasive voice.
6. Hypochondriac personality
7. Women who are critical about the way a man leads or talk.
8. Air Head type. Bad conversationalist.
9.Nagging

An Overwhelming 90% of the men surveyed said they found it easy to feel closer to a woman who was a good listener and appeared interested in what they had to say.

Most men did not like a woman who falsely led them on by flirting and then ignoring them the rest of the time.

Things You Should Never Tell Your Man

...wondering what more points can be added to this list...?

1. Never admit that you hate his mother -
...even if he bad-mouths her first (the Silence Is Golden rule).
...remember, he can say whatever he wants, because she's his mommy... he will preface everything he says about her in future with, "I know you hate her, but--." To be safe, apply this rule to all blood relations... Save your opinions about his family for your girlfriends or your shrink and you'll live a much happier life -- trust me.

2. Never confess to past infidelities -
...(the Don't Tell, Don't Tell rule).
...never admit that you cheated while in a committed relationship. On the subject of fidelity, you are above reproach... in all seriousness, you have to ask yourself how the relationship could possibly benefit from your true confessions, and I think you'll see the answer is not at all. Doubt can do serious damage.

3. Don't tell him that one of your girlfriends is cheating on her husband -
...(the Keep Your Big Fat Mouth Shut rule).
Just keeping your own past slipups under wraps is not enough. In general, you must act as though infidelity is equal to murder. You know it exists, you've read about it in the papers, but you certainly don't know anyone who has actually committed it.

4. Don't make him feel impotent about work -
...(the I Believe in You No Matter What rule)

5. Don't tell him you want a divorce unless you really do -
...(the Don't Give Him Any Big Ideas rule).
Once you introduce the idea of abandonment into your relationship, distrust can grow. You can't unring that bell, so don't ring it unless you're sure the whole damn town is on fire.

6. Never tell him that it does bother you that you make more money than he does
...(the Being Married to You Is a Full-Time Job rule).

10 Things You Should Never Tell A Woman

...wondering what more points can be added to this list...?

10.Your family hates her
…you'll only fuel the fire by making her angry or insecure. If you don't agree with your family's hesitations about her, then politely ask them to butt out. Just do what you can to make them change their minds and hope they'll warm up to her with time.

9.You have insecurities
One of the most important things a woman looks in a man is confidence, and if she sees that you are constantly insecure and jealous, you won't seem so poised. So if you can't put a stop to your insecurities and your green-eyed monster, at least try to keep it to yourself.

8.You flirt with other women
…she doesn't need to hear the list of women that you flirted with all day, nor does she need to hear about the list of women that flirted with you. If it really is harmless flirting, then why make her worry about it.

7.You have wimpy behavior
…you don't kill spiders, you run away from fights and maybe you even cry during movies. Unfortunately for you, the cliché is true: Women like strong men. So telling her that you're afraid of an itty-bitty insect or that you can't stand heights isn't going to work in your favor. Naturally, if you are going to be with her in the long term, she might learn some of these little factoids as you go along. But do your best not to divulge them all in the beginning.

6.You compare her to your ex-girlfriend in bed.
Needless to say, everyone does this; she is probably also comparing you to her ex to some extent. But do avoid offering her specific details about your past conquests, specifically the fact that your past lover was better than her in bed. In fact, even if you are telling her that she is better than your ex… No woman wants to be compared to another, especially in the sexual department.

5.You talk to your mother too often
Do you talk to mom several times a day? To a woman you're dating, that could be a little intimidating. A woman doesn't want to feel like she's competing with your mother, or worse, that you're dependent on mommy. So just keep that cute little secret to yourself.

4.You have not-so-cool hobbies
…you have to realize that it is unlikely that she will appreciate your wacky interests and hobbies. Don't fool yourself into thinking that such quirks are charming; chances are they'll just be a real turnoff.

3.You don't like her girlfriends
Most of her girlfriends have been in her life longer than you have, so talking negatively about them probably won't work out too well for you. If she doesn't end things with you entirely, she's sure to at least become defensive and angry about this -- so if you absolutely need to trash her girlfriends, just make sure she's not within earshot.

2.You've done shameful things in the past
You might think that the two of you are close enough for you to reveal these little tidbits. But unfortunately, she'll never be ready to hear that you've cheated on past girlfriends or that you've enjoyed private dances at strip club. Even non-sexual shameful acts that you've committed -- like theft, bullying or betrayals -- are not things that you want to divulge. While you might want to get some of these secrets off your chest, she will never forget them. And you'll come off looking like a less moral or honest person as a result.

1.You find one of her friends smoking hot So you think that blonde friend of hers is cute? Fair enough. But do have the sense not to mention it to your girlfriend -- not even as a joke. She won't find it funny; actually, she will probably be angry and hurt, and in the long run, she'll never trust you around her friends. You might think that your girlfriend is secure enough to handle this piece of information, but let me tell you that she's not. Most girls aren't, so don't risk it.

Source: askmen.com

Every women should have/know

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

• One old love she can imagine going back to... and one who reminds her how far she has come...
• A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age...
• Something perfect to wear if the date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
• A youth she's content to leave behind...
• Enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...
• One friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
• A feeling of control over her destiny...
• And...?
  

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

• How to fall in love without losing herself...
• What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
• Whom she can trust, whom she can't…
• That her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...
• How to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...
• How to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...
• Where to go... when her soul needs soothing...
• And...?

source: amzu

March 2006: Travelling and seeing places!

Updated on April 2014:

I want to talk about the places I have seen in India... and I will be talking about the places I still want to visit in India and other countries.

..have been to more than 30 cities ... out of 28 States (of India) I have seen around 11...

Visited: Uttar Pradesh: Bareilly, Lucknow, Noida, Nanital, Raniketh and near by places, Punjab: Chandighar, J&K: Jammu, Udhampur , Srinagar,. Goa, Nagaland, Delhi, Maharashtra: Bhusawal, Bombay, Pune, Gujarat: Valsad, Jharkhand: TataNagar/ Jamshedpur, Karnataka: Bangalore, Coorg, Tumkur, Honnemardu (Western Karnataka), Kemmangundi (District: Chikmagalur), Kerala: Munnar, Thalserry, Calicut/ Kozhikode, Pondicherry: Pondicherry, Mahe, Rajasthan, Tamil Nadu: Ooty, Kodaikanal...

Must go (from the above list): Raniketh, Chandighar, Udhampur, Srinagar, Goa, Nagaland, Coorg, Honnemardu, Kemmangundi, Munnar, Delhi, Pun, Bangalore…

I have some sweet memories of : Raniketh, Udhampur, Srinagar, Goa, Nagaland, Coorg, Munnar, Delhi, Pune, Bangalore…

I have a lot to write about these places but I don’t have that much time to compile my notes…

Places I want to visit: Simla, Egypt, Paris, Rome, Spain, Malaysia, Singapore, Maldives, Hong Kong, Tokyo…

Places visited outside India: London, Dubai, USA(New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, Las Vegas...and may more), Switzerland, Italy, Thialand, Jamaica...  

Want to re-visit: