Phew! i am still dreamy...

The other day I was telling him that I don’t like him in plain black or white t-shirt… still, he just won’t let them go.

So I've decide to spoil them with lot of kisses marks and scribble lot of mushy notes!!

(continue...) Coming back to my February mood of being in Love...

This morning while driving down to office I got lost- Lost in my fantasy word where things are just perfect, butterflies, pink flowers and love all around.

It all started with this song which goes like "U're my love, my life, my dream...I just wanna spend my life with you.." and then I saw one man carrying lots of pink flowers...

was driving, when I got lost listening to this song... (will write more about this soon...)

Behind the Name: The etymology and history of first names.

MÓNICA
Gender: Feminine
Usage: Spanish
Pronounced: MO-nee-kah

MONICA
Gender: Feminine
Usage: English, Italian, Portuguese, Romanian
Pronounced: MAHN-i-ka

Possibly means "advisor" from Latin moneo, but it is most likely of unknown North African or Phoenician origin. Saint Monica was the mother of Saint Augustine

What is the meaning of your name?

The Power of Positive Thinking!I found this article on the Internet. We all know about the power of positive thinking etc. This article is nothing new. However, In addition to what is written below I firmly believe “Its all in the mind!”

Key Point:You are what you think. You feel what you want.

Our present attitudes are habits, built from the feedback of parents, friends, society and self, that forms our self-image and our world-image.

These attitudes are maintained by the inner conversations we constantly have with ourselves, both consciously and subconsciously.
The first step in changing our attitudes is to change our inner conversations.

What Should We Be Saying?
One approach is called the three C's: Commitment, Control and Challenge.

Commitment
Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control
Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.
ChallengeBe courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don't look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.
Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,
"... people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better ..."

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

Suggestions for Building Positive Attitudes
• Look for positive people to associate with.
• Look for one more interesting idea.
• Find one more concept important to you.
• With every friend, explain a new idea you've just learned.
• Ask questions.
• With yourself, keep a list of your goals, positive thoughts and actions.
• Remember, you are what you think, you feel what you want

The only song I know-
If you miss the train I’m on, you will know that I am gone
You can hear the whistle blow a hundred miles,
A hundred miles, a hundred miles, a hundred miles, a hundred miles,
You can hear the whistle blow a hundred miles.

Lord I’m one, lord I’m two, lord I’m three, lord I’m four,
Lord I’m 500 miles from my home.
500 miles, 500 miles, 500 miles, 500 miles
Lord I’m five hundred miles from my home.

Not a shirt on my back, not a penny to my name
Lord I can’t go a-home this a-way
This a-away, this a-way, this a-way, this a-way,
Lord I can’t go a-home this a-way.

If you miss the train I’m on you will know that I am gone
You can hear the whistle blow a hundred miles.

I learnt this song in 1994 May, Summer adventure camp which is organized every year for Army officers kids. I sooo miss that time...

First it was 'I picked you to be my Valentine!' then 'Enough is Enough!' and now its this - A girl, rain and a lot more... These pictures says it all :)

When do you say this...?

My Valentine

Relationships

1. Do you need to play 'act-pricy’ games to get some attention? Or relationships are simple?

• I think we don’t really need to. But sometimes it’s needed; when you feel you are taken for granted.
• But I am not sure...

2. What is that make a relationship strong?

• Trust
• Understanding
• What else…?

3. I have seen breakups. And I know people give n reasons for why they are breaking up. I am just wondering, how can a person suddenly stop loving someone? What is that one real thing that lead to all these breakups?