February!!

Well… I feel December is the month of Christmas celebrations (in true believer way), spending time with family and friends, shopping, gifts, Red-Green-White color.

Similarly, I feel that February is the month of Red color, gifts, meeting friends and spending time with someone special.

I feel so happy and special already!!

Stabber:
Out of the blue, a fren just said - "I'll tell you one thing... If somebody stabs a knife, you should not hate the knife. You should hate the stabber"
My response to that was - "I so hate that stabber. I wish someone stabs him too!!"
And then he continues - "He is destined for his tomorrow" {He = Stabber}

I probably was mean by saying what I said, but that’s what I felt. And I guess my fren was just supporting me so that I don’t feel guilty for having said what I said.

But I still wonder...
1. Should we hate that 'Stabber'?
2. Or forgive-forget such people?
3. Do people actually pay in future for what they do wrong to others??

Well, I think I will be careful with people now. Don’t want to be stabbed by anyone. Nor do I want to be in a situation where I am paying for what I did wrong to someone in past.

Unconditional Love

My friend sent me a offliner on Yahoo which goes like this-

SN (1/24/2006 9:06:07 PM): "You learn to like someone when you find out what makes them laugh, but you can never truly love someone until you find out what makes them cry.” "If we don't feel love with our heart, then how come that's where it hurts when someone doesn't love you back." "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."

What made me ponder upon the most is the last one -
"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."... My first few thoughts on this were - Oh My God! I wonder if I really love any one on earth... hummm.... my count will go like err... 0 to 2 max!!

How many people you think you really love (in true sense, really unconditional love)... just think about it...

And I dont think we are even careful in using the word 'Love/Adore'. I think we should say or express such feeling in words only when we really mean it and can keep up to it. And if you really do love someone, I dont think you would need to say it in words much; your actions will say it all :)

I can't wait for things for too long!

Weddings...
The first thing that comes in my mind is the beautiful dresses that the bride wears on different days (holds true for Indian weddings).

Life is simple... we complicate it by getting confused.

Probably we all know what is the right path for us... But fear and confusions keep holding us back.

What if, there is no fear and we are bold enough to face life as it comes... will we still take ages to decide which path/way to take?

What is important at the end of the day? Isn't it the 'Peace' that we all look for?
What if this is the last day for me on earth?

There has been time (almost one year) when I was at 100% peace. And I used to keep thanking God for it. I think, I get peace in simple things like nature's beauty, love of friends and family.

If this day was my last day on earth, I don't think I will be spending it in office. I will be with my loved ones in some beautiful place (close to nature).

One life!
- I wonder what the definition of life is. It cannot be same for all... or is it?
- What is that one thing that you want to live for?
- Which is that one place/city/country you would like to spend most of your time?
- How to deal with mistakes of past?
Many such random questions keep coming up in my mind.

...juda hoke bhi tu mujhmein kahi baaki hai,
palkon mein banke aansu tu chali aati hai.

kaise zinda hu ae zindagi bin tere main,
dard hi dard baaki raha hai seene mein,
saans lena bhar hi yaha jeena nahi hain,
ab toh aadat si hai mujhko aaise jeene mein.

juda hoke bhi tu mujhmein kahi baaki hai,
palkon mein banke aansu tu chali aati hai,
saath mere hain tu har pal shab ke andhere mein,
paas mere hain tu har pal ujale savere mein,

dil se dhadkan bhula dena aasan nahi hai,
ab toh aadat si hai mujhko aaise jeene mein.

yeh jo yaadein hai ... sabhi kaatein hai ... hata do inhe, mita do inhe... juda hoke bhi.....