I observed one thing that u write mostly on Love,Relation and life (with toooo good pic! :)) and thats the main reason why i visit ur blog regularly !!
and today also u r not disapponting me :)
well i must say keep writing more n more stuff like this ...
(Ishq Vish Pyaar Vyaar) Hey Mon.., i am not a champ @ this topic.. and the way things are, I sup. i dont know exactly what love is.. But what you say here seems like a oxymoron.. "you love each other and cant get a long"??
hey mon thanks for visiting shameless. its not like that guys are always busy or gals always find time for gupshup its just matter of timing. i am still not able to find time for her but the love is still the same and hey in love enough is never enough
@charul: hey charul, i'm happy to knw tht u like wht i write :) thnx a ton... i love life, relationships matters a lot to me and love is all tht keeps me going ;)
@abhishek: :) its not abt "Ishq Vish Pyaar Vyaar", its abt any relationship... "you love each other and cant get a long", does sound contradictory but the point is if u do love someone when do u say enough is enough... well, i would say "never". at least i hope i would never give up. btw, its from the movie 'The Mexican'
@kumar: i agree its all abt timing.. wakt wakt ke baat hai
@ Mon Hey..'tseems.. you got a bit peeved by my comment.... Though i now understand a little better ( I suppose )what you mean by it!
But as my view about the same would be say this "so called" limit..as when it is enough is very case specific, you would/could have different limits for different people..You parents/ friends/collegues.. you would allow different spaces to each and different levels of acces to you as a person!no? gues there is a fliud unsaid limit with every different relationship, which keeps getting re-defined as and when the relationship which also ( always..in all cases with all people) keeps getting redefined.. what do you say??
@abhishek: :) i did not take ur comment in any kind of negative way... in fact i like wht u write/say.
and regarding this post, well.. it is not at all a generalized Answer, "Enough is never enough", as it is shown in the movie or as i have posted...
i agree with you "...there is a fluid unsaid limit with every different relationship, which keeps getting re-defined as and when the relationship...keeps getting redefined.."
Ques: If two people really love each other but just can't get along, when do they say enough is enough? Ans: Enough is never enough. well, i would like it to be this way...not giving up on a relationship which is based on love..etc...
and suddenly thr is a silly question in my mind – (which probably doesn’t make any sense) Ques: "..love so deep, tht it couldn’t be expressed; but… if it was so real, so deep, why it didn’t last forever?" (and a funny reply to this could be) Ans:"..cos all real thing comes to an end.." lol
i hate to admit, but.. thr could be a point whr enough is enough..
Hi mon, that is a brilliant line. I missed it in the movie (cuz the movie was so bad hehe) Its tricky when you love someone but dont get along. I guess the easy way out would be to walk away (yes that is easy) instead of staying and trying. I guess it depends on whether you think they are still worth fighting for, the relationship is still worth fighting for?
@aditi: thats the point - "..depends on whether...the relationship is still worth fighting for?"
in most cases ppl give up as they think (at tht point) tht its not worth it...and they forget the love/time/energy they have already given into tht relationship in past..suddenly all of tht looks so meaningless, and they r in the rush to end it all...
Mon, a big Hi to You as well*flashes a very toothy smile :D* I am good.Hows u? Anyways as for relationship, it is a very personal thing for all of us and believe a man never ever think along the same lines on which that a woman thinks. Oh this is such a touchy issue.I think Patience is the key word in relationship.
hey mon... i believ if u truly love a person, then u, at some point also hate/have hated that person, in whichever way u see it. i so understand 'two people really love each other but just can't get along',in any relationship. sumhw reminds me of ths fwd: 'wat hurts the most is wen u sittin' beside sumone knowin' u cant have him/her.' similar strain of thght...
@tarun: hi tarun :) humm... Patience... makes sense.
@rich: hey rich, well.. i'm wondering on wht u said "...hate/have hated that person..." but anyways, i totally agree tht it is very hurting when u love but cant get along or cant have him/her...
If two people in love cannot get along together, they try their best never to say enough. It remains to be seen when they really have enough of each other. Short and sweet, nice blog! Keep posting! Bye!
My spit? Between the two lovers , one of them will say "Enough is Enough" when he/she (she/she, he/he) realizes that he/she(he/he,she/she) is the only one "in love" in the relationship.
Its hard to carry on a realtionship without equal reciprocation and its rare to find such a relationship too.
You know what Mon, on second..umm no tertiary thoughts...... Can you (throw light) give us your opinion/ Defination of LOVE
Coz I belive..that (like most other big words/rhetoric) LOVE is among the words..which is oercieved/ Mispercived by different people in different ways... Also the same is (myopically)..viewed by perciever the ways S/HE wants to!!
Sorry for the word SOUP.. hope you/ppl understand what i have in my (wierd) mind
@ethan: quite true "..Its hard to carry on a relationship without equal reciprocation.."
@anonymous: well..if they r tired and too disappointed then probably it is the time to talk and re-define the relationship..but i'm not quite sure ..
@abhishek:i'm not sure if i can answer to 'wht is love?'... but i totally agree tht it is misperceived and tht diff ppl have diff 'mental-concepts' abt love!
the key word(s) in any meaningful relationship is "un-conditionally doing/giving"
Love: "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
sumhw i feel, love goes much deeper than lust or the physical desire for a person... its also an emotional need.
fling nw is a much casual term, an attraction n closer to lust.
hw do u define love, any feelin' has a different level for every individual perception. happiness... a feelin', has different levels of satisfaction for me n u...
i agree wit sahibi tho, v hav certain preconceived images in r head... but i think thats not the reason v fall in love, thats the reason v break up, coz its hard for ppl to change enuff to meet ur imagination status.
as a passin thght, i do believ most women (im nt too sure of men!) r in love wit the thght of bein' in love... :)
@sahibi: love is an emotional state which makes u do anything for the person u love; let it be love for family, frens etc... love..or an emotional state which is called love- lasts forever. the one which doesn’t is not love, its attraction... if u really do love someone, u will always have tht feeling for that person..if u dnt love him/her for long then it was never love, it was just a crush (attraction)...
@rich: i agree tht some women r in love with just the thought of being in love...
if its real love for an individual, well then the feelings will last for ever... i'm talking abt the feeling whr the other person's happiness is more important than your own.
Enough is enough?
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i cant say anything about love and relationships so can't comment on this post of urs.
But many people told me the same tht they dont like calcutta wats wrong with it???
Yeah i may like the place coz few frnds of mine told me that calcutta's pub are way more economical then bombay's. So tht may be a relief :p
@ankit: well update me on cal' when u reach thr. and even if u dnt like tht place u can always have fun later..
hey i found ur blog quite beautiful...pics r reeally gud like urs/...
Hey Mon!
I observed one thing that u write mostly on Love,Relation and life (with toooo good pic! :)) and thats the main reason why i visit ur blog regularly !!
and today also u r not disapponting me :)
well i must say keep writing more n more stuff like this ...
cya
(Ishq Vish Pyaar Vyaar)
Hey Mon.., i am not a champ @ this topic.. and the way things are, I sup. i dont know exactly what love is.. But what you say here seems like a oxymoron.. "you love each other and cant get a long"??
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Is that your pic..
:P nice pic..
hey mon thanks for visiting shameless. its not like that guys are always busy or gals always find time for gupshup its just matter of timing. i am still not able to find time for her but the love is still the same
and hey in love enough is never enough
@anu: thnx anu :)
@charul: hey charul, i'm happy to knw tht u like wht i write :) thnx a ton... i love life, relationships matters a lot to me and love is all tht keeps me going ;)
@abhishek: :) its not abt "Ishq Vish Pyaar Vyaar", its abt any relationship...
"you love each other and cant get a long", does sound contradictory but the point is if u do love someone when do u say enough is enough...
well, i would say "never". at least i hope i would never give up.
btw, its from the movie 'The Mexican'
@kumar: i agree its all abt timing.. wakt wakt ke baat hai
@ Mon
Hey..'tseems.. you got a bit peeved by my comment....
Though i now understand a little better ( I suppose )what you mean by it!
But as my view about the same would be say this "so called" limit..as when it is enough is very case specific, you would/could have different limits for different people..You parents/ friends/collegues..
you would allow different spaces to each and different levels of acces to you as a person!no?
gues there is a fliud unsaid limit with every different relationship, which keeps getting re-defined as and when the relationship which also ( always..in all cases with all people) keeps getting redefined..
what do you say??
@abhishek: :) i did not take ur comment in any kind of negative way... in fact i like wht u write/say.
and regarding this post, well.. it is not at all a generalized Answer, "Enough is never enough", as it is shown in the movie or as i have posted...
i agree with you "...there is a fluid unsaid limit with every different relationship, which keeps getting re-defined as and when the relationship...keeps getting redefined.."
Ques: If two people really love each other but just can't get along, when do they say enough is enough?
Ans: Enough is never enough.
well, i would like it to be this way...not giving up on a relationship which is based on love..etc...
and suddenly thr is a silly question in my mind – (which probably doesn’t make any sense)
Ques: "..love so deep, tht it couldn’t be expressed; but… if it was so real, so deep, why it didn’t last forever?"
(and a funny reply to this could be)
Ans:"..cos all real thing comes to an end.." lol
i hate to admit, but.. thr could be a point whr enough is enough..
Hi mon, that is a brilliant line. I missed it in the movie (cuz the movie was so bad hehe)
Its tricky when you love someone but dont get along. I guess the easy way out would be to walk away (yes that is easy) instead of staying and trying. I guess it depends on whether you think they are still worth fighting for, the relationship is still worth fighting for?
Hey...
The ANSWER...
what's distance I've measured it all as u r in my heart & I'm urs
what's defference I've deleted all as u r in my heart & I'm urs..
Yesterday it was entertainment industry's profile..now it's corporate...HMMM
!!
Roy
@aditi: thats the point - "..depends on whether...the relationship is still worth fighting for?"
in most cases ppl give up as they think (at tht point) tht its not worth it...and they forget the love/time/energy they have already given into tht relationship in past..suddenly all of tht looks so meaningless, and they r in the rush to end it all...
Mon, a big Hi to You as well*flashes a very toothy smile :D*
I am good.Hows u?
Anyways as for relationship, it is a very personal thing for all of us and believe a man never ever think along the same lines on which that a woman thinks.
Oh this is such a touchy issue.I think Patience is the key word in relationship.
hey mon... i believ if u truly love a person, then u, at some point also hate/have hated that person, in whichever way u see it. i so understand 'two people really love each other but just can't get along',in any relationship. sumhw reminds me of ths fwd: 'wat hurts the most is wen u sittin' beside sumone knowin' u cant have him/her.' similar strain of thght...
@tarun: hi tarun :)
humm... Patience... makes sense.
@rich: hey rich, well.. i'm wondering on wht u said "...hate/have hated that person..."
but anyways, i totally agree tht it is very hurting when u love but cant get along or cant have him/her...
If two people in love cannot get along together, they try their best never to say enough. It remains to be seen when they really have enough of each other. Short and sweet, nice blog!
Keep posting!
Bye!
Mon, Thanks for stopping by my blog.
You put an interesting question out there.
My spit? Between the two lovers , one of them will say "Enough is Enough" when he/she (she/she, he/he) realizes that he/she(he/he,she/she) is the only one "in love" in the relationship.
Its hard to carry on a realtionship without equal reciprocation and its rare to find such a relationship too.
Sorry for the big confusion up there.
Nice pic, you look beautiful!!
What if they are tired of running after every reflection that looked like a desert pond but turned out to be mere mirage?
You know what Mon,
on second..umm no tertiary thoughts......
Can you (throw light) give us your opinion/ Defination of LOVE
Coz I belive..that (like most other big words/rhetoric) LOVE is among the words..which is oercieved/ Mispercived by different people in different ways...
Also the same is (myopically)..viewed by perciever the ways S/HE wants to!!
Sorry for the word SOUP..
hope you/ppl understand what i have in my (wierd) mind
@kevin:hey kevin, thnx for dropping by
@ethan: quite true "..Its hard to carry on a relationship without equal reciprocation.."
@anonymous: well..if they r tired and too disappointed then probably it is the time to talk and re-define the relationship..but i'm not quite sure ..
@abhishek:i'm not sure if i can answer to 'wht is love?'...
but i totally agree tht it is misperceived and tht diff ppl have diff 'mental-concepts' abt love!
the key word(s) in any meaningful relationship is "un-conditionally doing/giving"
Love: "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
as sahibi says - love/lust/fling...
sumhw i feel, love goes much deeper than lust or the physical desire for a person... its also an emotional need.
fling nw is a much casual term, an attraction n closer to lust.
hw do u define love,
any feelin' has a different level for every individual perception.
happiness... a feelin', has different levels of satisfaction for me n u...
i agree wit sahibi tho, v hav certain preconceived images in r head... but i think thats not the reason v fall in love, thats the reason v break up, coz its hard for ppl to change enuff to meet ur imagination status.
as a passin thght, i do believ most women (im nt too sure of men!) r in love wit the thght of bein' in love... :)
@sahibi: love is an emotional state which makes u do anything for the person u love; let it be love for family, frens etc...
love..or an emotional state which is called love- lasts forever. the one which doesn’t is not love, its attraction... if u really do love someone, u will always have tht feeling for that person..if u dnt love him/her for long then it was never love, it was just a crush (attraction)...
@rich: i agree tht some women r in love with just the thought of being in love...
if its real love for an individual, well then the feelings will last for ever... i'm talking abt the feeling whr the other person's happiness is more important than your own.
Its all word soup!!
they are all inventions to keep our minds busy and occupied...
Love
relationships
money
job
travel
places
SAB MAYA HAI
:P
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